last!
It almost seems like most men fall into either the bad
boy or the nice guy category. In my opinion,
the idealman is neither, but walks that fine line between the
two.
While some women say they want a nice guy,they usually end up dating bad boys. Here's why!
1. Their Personalities Don't Seem Genuine
Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that
nice unless they're a saint. They are busy being nice
instead of being real and women instinctually(if d word exists) don't
trust that. Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't
want to upset the apple cart.
2. They Don't Have Self-Respect!
No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set
boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy
doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him.
Women can't respect a man they can control. No
respect equals no attraction.
3. They're SO Predictable—Which Is Just Boring!
Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're
attracted to people who are exciting and a bit
unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge.
Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no
excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad
boy.
4. Loving A Bad Boy Is In Our Genes[b]
lolz
(not every girl tho) Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of
doing this with children, they often end up doing it
with bad boys. They think their love will save them.
Nice guys rarely need to be saved.
5. [b]Women Like To Feel Needed
Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed". Bad boys
usually do, so they become a project. Some women
think if they can "create" the perfect man, he will
never leave them. Also, if they're busy fixing
someone else, they don't have to look at what needs
to be fixed in their own lives.
6. Their Sperm Is Weak
Women are designed to procreate with the strongest
possible genes. Bad boys are sending an
unconscious message that they have great genes,
so they're not afraid of losing the woman by
misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that
they don't think their genes are good enough, so
they won't misbehave.
7. They Have A Fear Of intimacy
If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously
knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she
can never get close enough to him to have to go
there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment,
and that's scary.
8. They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem
We don't feel comfortable with people who treat us
better than we treat ourselves. If you don't think
much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing
your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a
way you're not familiar with.
9. The Sex Isn't As Mind-Blowing
Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed. They
sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice
guy won't be able to take control and get the job
done. A bad boy comes across as being able to
deliver, even though that may not always be the
case.
10. Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy
Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn't hot? I'm
sure there are a few, but they wouldn't be able to get
away with half the stuff they did if they didn't look so
good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes
someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot."
11. They Aren't As Charming
Nice guys don't always know what to say and are
sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very
charming and know exactly what women want to
hear. However, they eventually switch over to being
selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the
woman has fallen for them and has a hard time
letting go.
12. They're Not As Strong Physically
Historically, men have protected women — physically
and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being
able to protect women, while with nice guys, women
aren't so sure. Life is all about balance. Until men
learn how to do that, more often than not, women
will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his
bad qualities outweigh his good ones.
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