Here are the top ten signs to look for that might mean your partner is cheating:
1. S/He takes the cell phone everywhere.
Taking the phone everywhere, including the bathroom, is a red flag.
Doing so can help the cheating partner hide text messages or make secret
calls. If your partner is attached at the hip to the cell phone there
might be cause for alarm.
2. S/He always has a reason you cannot hang out or visit their living space. Not
being able to visit, announced or otherwise, could mean there is
something to hide. In the early stages of a relationship, this boundary
is expected. But as time progresses and the boundary remains high,
cheating might be the reason.
3. S/He no longer initiates or seems interested in sex. A sudden decrease in interest in being intimate could mean that someone else is satisfying your partner.
4. S/He falls off the map suddenly and frequently. You’re
texting or messaging and all of a sudden your partner falls off the
map. When asked, s/he does not give a clear or reasonable explanation.
5. Working late… a lot! Suddenly,
when you ask to make plans the excuse is always “I have to work late.”
Perhaps the excuse is legitimate on occasion, but when this excuse
becomes habitual it could be a red flag for cheating activities.
6. Always ready to run an errand. When
a partner always volunteers to run an errand or looks for insignificant
reasons to get out of the house, cheating could be the culprit.7. S/He
gets upset if you touch his/her phone. You pick up his phone to check
the time or date and your partner overreacts. This response could be an
indication that there is something in the phone to hide.
8. Sudden increased interest in appearance. A new wardrobe and a new perfume or cologne could be signs on interest in someone else.
9. S/He keeps you a clandestine secret. S/he has met your friends but not the reverse. Being kept a secret could be a sign that there is something to hide from you.
10. S/He avoids contact with you on social media. You
are not allowed to follow him/her on Instagram or you cannot be his/her
friend on Facebook are big, red warning signs that your partner could
have a secret relationship.
Indeed, accusations of cheating and
infidelity are serious. These are just a few things to look for that
could possibly indicate fidelity. With more than half of both genders
engaging in cheating behaviors, the likelihood that your intuition is
right is pretty high.
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