And it’s not that you have to change into a whimpering “I need a man”
chick. You do need to stop and smell the medicinal marijuana
and understand a bit how we work.
1. Make sure your package looks good.
Dress well. That doesn’t mean that you have to let everything hang out.
On the contrary, dress attractively and in style. Men are two things
for sure: visual and competitive. If he sees other guys looking to check
you out, you get like 747 bonus points.
2. Smile a lot and be warm. Ratchet
chicks can stay home on this one for sure. If you are serious about
nailing your man, drop that big smile on him, push your hair behind your
ears when responding to a question, laugh at his jokes (funny or not)
and use your eyes to express affection. You know who was a master at
using her eyes to melt a man and to this says still has millions of
admirers? Marilyn Monroe.
3. Don’t be rude. Don’t treat other people with disrespect, such as the waitress or any other service people you encounter.
4. Listen to him. Connect
on a level other than physical or flirty. Have a conversation about his
career or something intriguing that’s going on in the world that shows
you have some level of intelligence.
5. Touch him in a lingering way. When
you answer a question, reach over and lightly touch his arm or lean in
to talk softly into his ear with your hand gently placed on his
shoulder. Physically flirt with him without exposing the goods.
6. Don’t always be so eager to be with him. Yep,
you’ve heard it before – men are hunters. And if you can tackled, ropes
and hog-tied in one fell swoop, you will not hold his interest.
7. Show off a little when the opportunity comes up. Maybe
you can sing, so blow him away at a karaoke bar. Perhaps you are great
at trivia, so impress him while you two are playing as a pair at a bar
so that you as a couple win the competition. You have something that you
are really good at, and one day you need to surprise him with your
talent… and watch him admire you with big soft falling-in-love eyes.
8. Don’t let him know that you are into him line, sinker and hook. Keep
him guessing a little bit. Don’t play games. Just hold back enough to
be a little mysterious. He’s going to like a bit of a chase –it’s his
nature.
Men don’t fall as fast as women do in
general, so be a little patient, be warm and be you. You want him to
want you, not what you think he wants.
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