21 Tell Tale Signs Of Emotional Abuse in marriage

In our nigerian society ,physical abuse is recognized but often times emotional abuse isn't

While some batterers are usually also emotionally abusive,emotional abuse can exist without the spouse ever laying a finger on the other.

This is a comprehensive list of emotional abuse culled from an online site

Couples should recognize that this is not acceptable behavior and should not become a pattern in the home

These signs are




Humiliating or embarrassing you.

Constant put-downs.

Hypercriticism.

Refusing to communicate.

Ignoring or excluding you.

Extramarital affairs.

Provocative behavior with opposite sex.

Use of sarcasm and unpleasant tone of voice.

Unreasonable jealousy.

Extreme moodiness.

Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you.

Saying “I love you but…”

Saying things like “If you don’t _____, I will_____.”

Domination and control.

Withdrawal of affection.

Guilt trips.

Making everything your fault.

Isolating you from friends and family.

Using money to control.

Constant calling or texting when you are not with him/her.

Threatening to commit suicide if you leave.