MUST I INVOLVE GOD IN MY RELATIONSHIP?

Someone asked: "If we are not romancing, kissing or having sex to spice up our relationship, what else would we be doing? Won't the relationship be boring without these spices?"
Sex can never make your relationship grow. You even need more than love to make a marriage work. You need actions born out of love to revitalize the romance.
So what can you do? It may sound boring but it is the best foundation ever.

1. For your relationship to be built on the right foundation, there is a need to involve the God-factor. Every tower should be built on a solid foundation so it doesn't fail or fall. Anyone leading you out of God's path should make you flee.

2. You cannot ignore the power of seeking God's face in every aspect of your life for direction and understanding.

3. You should both share the passion for God and encourage each other in growing spiritually. How?

4. Courtship is not a time to get involved in every sexual activities but a time to bond with God and to make things work.

5. Create time to share the word together, pray and talk on what God has been showing you, if there is a need to.

6. You can read spiritual books together and talk about the effects. Encourage each other. Buy books for each other. Have a prayer note.
In this way, you can grow better in your spiritual life before and after marriage.
Don't spend the night in your partner's house in the name of "A Vigil or Prayer activity", you may have to ska-bash right in bed.