Opinion: Money Is Not a Necessary Ingredient in ATTRACTING a Lady. - Romance

This is not "the cry of a Broke äss Niggah" as some myopic people will say because it's far from that.

Often times,,i've seen and heard people talking about money as being the only way to woo a lady in this our country. At first,,it was only coming from the female folk. But now,,the male folk have joined in this chant,,not only that but they have also made it seem like the Norm and that without it nothing fruitful will happen.

Yes,,i agree with the fact that money is good and can get us almost anything(if not everything) we need. But when it comes to finding true LOVE can money do that?
Please ladies,,let's be realistic here. When a man approaches you and the first thing he does is to begin to flaunt his wealth and other flashy things,,does that make you Fall head over heels for him? I believe ladies who know what they want and know the true meaning of happiness will reply in the Negative. Ladies only want the money when they are hungry or needy.

Now to my fellow nigerian men. This is nothing but the truth. We all need to sharpen our dating and attraction skills. Many men are lazy to walk up to a lady and tell her their mind. Their ideology is "Let me make the money first". But I will tell you that even when you get that money you still will be unfulfilled as you lack the prowess to naturally attract women.

In my opinion,,people who use money to attract girls and try to make her fall in Love through that way are suffering from Low Self Esteem and Lack of self confidence. Any girl that claims she loves you after your display of wealth is only out for your money and nothing else. When she is tired she will still walk away.

We need to use our natural talent given to us by God (or whoever we think we worship),,to attract these ladies or women. Get them to like us the natural way and then the money can start flowing.

Let the Ladies fall in Love with your true personality and not your wealth.

Now don't get me wrong,,i'm talking about attraction and not maintaining the relationship.

This opinion does not apply to men who only want the Lady for sex and need a "sharp sharp" method. But even at that,,there are ways with which you can attract a lady sexually and get her to bed with you without even spending a DIME!

The real Ladies know this,,but they won't talk because they are enjoying your money.

Money will only make you a 'MAGA' and not buy her 'LOVE'

We men should go and sharpen our attraction skills. MONEY will be used to sustain the relationship among other things.