Wrong Reasons Why Ladies Desperately Go Into Relationship/marriage - Romance

Two is better than one. It is only in marriage that one plus one equals one and the only institution you receive certificate @ the beginning and never graduate.

Hitherto the level of desperation among ladies nowadays is like comparing it to the recent global meltdown.

Going straight to the point, here are the few wrong reasons why ladies desperately go into relationship/marriage;

1. Peer pressure: Your colleagues/friends @ school, working place, social platforms, area, etc are getting married, engaged, going into relationship and you are the only single lady among them becomes a serious issue as your family will ask several questions if your attitude is bad, negative or unfriendly. The kind of feedback you get from friends and family is so negative leaves you no option to scout for any man that comes your way leading to unhappy relationship/marriage.

2 Age and Time: You feel "oh time is going". Nneka, mirexxx, ishilove, missjenna etc (lol just for example) are into relationship, they will soon marry and they are in their early 20's while I will soon be 30, menopause coming, beauty depreciating, etc. Everybody has their time. It pays to be patient atimes. Of course the patient dog eats the best meal. Delay is not a denial but an experience for greater heights.

3. Financial stability: The economy is not friendly nowadays and sorry to say Nigerian ladies has turn relationship into money making business. The kind of criteria ladies set about their ideal men is vague and very difficult to meet. Before she says YES, the guy must Behind her up, buy tech gadgets, foot some of her bills. This is the more reason the radar of heart breaks is increasing day by day. When he is done getting his pleasure, you become a dumping ground.

4. Show off: Ladies like show off. They class themselves from other single ladies by displaying engagement rings on their finger, upload pix of her boo on dp, etc. So in order to terrorise their counterparts, they make it a routine exercise to class themselves.

5. Escape route: To run from your house chores, family issue, you become a SEMI prostitute by luring any man as long he has d finance to care of you. Escape route to become wife as soon as possible allows desperation cloud your judgement by marrying the wrong man.

6. Emotional relief: Ladies are emotional and need the touch of a man who cares about how they feel. Some ladies don't know how to control their emotion that at the slightest touch of a guy, their defence mechanism is gun down. So in order not to become a slut, they look for the next available 6 pack bobo to man their emotion.